So... That dating thing

Yes, I read the infamous I Kissed Dating Goodbye a couple of days ago as I lougened around Josh's apartment. I have heard many people express distaste for this book, ironically most have never read it, they simply judge it by the title. In all honesty, I read only about 2/3 of the book, the beginning and end for two reasons: I was time limited and it seemed largely directed towards high school students and the writing was very simplistic, and most of his examples of "dating gone wrong" involved high schoolers. That's fine and all, but I'm a sophmore in college, I want to hear about people in their mid-20s.
I liked his overall message, it seemed the main point he was trying to make was that relationships with the opposite sex should not consume our life, that we should enjoy our time of singleness and use it to glorify the Lord as much as possible. My friend DJ once said a better title would be "I Kissed the Pursuit of Dating Goodbye," which in one sense is appropriate, but ultimately it would fall short, since Harris is without a doubt against dating. The alternative he gives has more of the appearance of courtship, in other words a serious relationship in which from the very beginning marriage is stated as the end goal. The very idea of that is very intimidating, but that is his point -- if we aren't that serious about relationships, we have no business being in one. I have to say I strongly agree with him on that point.